My partner and I have been in a male submissive relationship for a few years. She enjoys cbt and hard spanking, however is not sure if she wants to continue on a 24/7 basis. I love her very much and as always want to focus on her wants and needs. She believes this style of relationship is socially unexpected, however educates her friends on how to manipulate there partners into domestic service and submission.
Without upsetting the dynamic of the relationship, I would love to continue a 24/7 male submissive relationship on her terms. She regularly beats me with a harsh whip and kicks and gropes my genitals whilst saying “there mine” and locks me in chastity during intervals of intercourse. I believe that because she is very dominant I become too timid and find it hard to give her a solid answer when she requires it. And this is why she wants to revert to a vanilla lifestyle. We have tried going vanilla for a week and she struggles to have me as an equal.
Any suggestion on how we can continue without doing harm?
